Comments on: My Dad Died http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died Re/views on life, music, movies, games, politics, technology, the internet, and more. By Dean E Nelson. Sat, 22 Nov 2008 03:51:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Katie http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died#comment-1393 Katie Thu, 07 Sep 2006 01:06:08 +0000 http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died/#comment-1393 You know I was thinking about you recently, knowing that your birthday was coming up, I didn't come on to your website to hear this kind of news...not that it's a bad thing to know what is going on in a friends life...I can understand what you are feeling, mixed emotions about losing the person that was your father. Having lost a parent, I guess I can relate. But if you weren't as close as most father-son relationships are supposed to be, then I'm sure you will deal with the loss the best way you know how. Everyone deals with loss in a different fashion. I am here if you need anything...I do miss hanging out, and have thought that we should all get together for lunch one of these days soon. I know you have a bit on your plate right now, so just let me know if I can be of any help. Love ya, Katie You know I was thinking about you recently, knowing that your birthday was coming up, I didn’t come on to your website to hear this kind of news…not that it’s a bad thing to know what is going on in a friends life…I can understand what you are feeling, mixed emotions about losing the person that was your father. Having lost a parent, I guess I can relate. But if you weren’t as close as most father-son relationships are supposed to be, then I’m sure you will deal with the loss the best way you know how. Everyone deals with loss in a different fashion. I am here if you need anything…I do miss hanging out, and have thought that we should all get together for lunch one of these days soon. I know you have a bit on your plate right now, so just let me know if I can be of any help. Love ya, Katie

]]> By: Mary http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died#comment-1365 Mary Wed, 06 Sep 2006 04:33:42 +0000 http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died/#comment-1365 Hey hon, I wanted to call a couple times over the weekend to check on you, but I didn't want to bug you. I'm sorry that you're having to go through this thought process right now. It sounds like you recognized things about your dad (both positive and negative), and made some kind of acceptance and peace towards him over it...and in my definition, that's a form of love. Maybe not the entire conventional sense, but it's an aspect. In the end, you were there for him as much as you could be and as much as he would allow you, and that's all one could ask for. You did what you could you know? You and Christina call me if you need anything!!! Hey hon, I wanted to call a couple times over the weekend to check on you, but I didn’t want to bug you. I’m sorry that you’re having to go through this thought process right now. It sounds like you recognized things about your dad (both positive and negative), and made some kind of acceptance and peace towards him over it…and in my definition, that’s a form of love. Maybe not the entire conventional sense, but it’s an aspect. In the end, you were there for him as much as you could be and as much as he would allow you, and that’s all one could ask for. You did what you could you know? You and Christina call me if you need anything!!!

]]> By: Dave http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died#comment-1296 Dave Fri, 01 Sep 2006 22:02:34 +0000 http://deanish.com/posts/my-dad-died/#comment-1296 Hey Dean, sorry to hear about your dad. I have the same kind of relationship with my dad - in fact I have no idea what he looks like or how he lives his life! I've never known anybody that's died... so I can't really offer any words of advice or "I know how you feel", sorry! Hey Dean, sorry to hear about your dad. I have the same kind of relationship with my dad - in fact I have no idea what he looks like or how he lives his life!

I’ve never known anybody that’s died… so I can’t really offer any words of advice or “I know how you feel”, sorry!

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